Selling Rules #27: Welcome Complaints
July 26th, 2010 by Murray RaphelWHEN SOMEONE COMPLAINS ABOUT a product they bought from you, the first rule is to “listen.”
They’ve rehearsed what they’re going to say, they expect negative feedback from you. They are ready to fight. So don’t interrupt them. Listen.
Don’t comment, don’t look around, don’t adopt the “I’ve heard all this before” exasperated look. Listen. And look at them while they’re talking.
Then, when their conversation stops, wait a second and carefully, softly say these ten words: “Tell me what you want and the answer is yes.”
If the color in the shirt ran in the washing, if they were forced to go through a telephone drill of “Push 1 for… push 2 for…” and were not taken care of, if the book they ordered was not what they thought it would be – whatever the merchandise or complaint – simply say, “Tell me what you want and the answer is yes.” They can have a replacement of merchandise, their money back, money for gas for driving to your place of business — whatever they want. And it is offered with your apologies and thanks.
Here’s what happens: the customer is at first confused, then bewildered, then amazed and then, often, apologetic.
They are conditioned for confrontation. What they receive instead is kindness.
It works.
Murray Raphel travels the world speaking about marketing for retailing, direct marketing, financial/insurance groups and the food industry. He is the author of several books including “Selling Rules!”, “Speaking Rules!”, and “Tough Selling for Tough Times.”
For more information about Murray and his books, visit www.brigantinemedia.com.

